The Spott

We got to go back out again last night, and as always, had a ton of fun.

About two weeks ago, we started looking at events and such in the area that would be a lot of fun for yesterday, as we knew we would be free..    We generally try and stick to the larger events for the most part, and there are a couple clubs in the area that we avoid..

Generally, one of those we tried to avoid is The Spott.   We have made it there about 5 times previously, and every time it seemed that people stuck to themselves, and did not socialize among each other much at all.   We did not have a whole lot of fun when we went there..

We had been talking on and off through private messages to M and R quite a bit over the past several days, looking to get together when they were coming into town.    There were no real large events over the weekend, and they had planned to go out to dinner, and then to The Spott.  They asked if we wanted to join them, and we accepted.    They informed us that they had brought a single male friend of thiers in, and he had flown in to visit.  

I am not huge on single male's in the lifestyle, but I am not going to judge them at all for wanting to play with one, so we accept thier invitation, and book a room in the same hotel.

Once checked into the room, Aly and I head downstairs for some of the free alcoholic drinks they are offering, and with no availiable seating, take them back up to our room.    A minute later, we get a text message from M asking where we went, as they had seen us as we walked out of the lobby area.   We told them, and they came up to our room a little while later, giving hugs and kisses hello, and introducing us to the single male (S).

We went down and got a couple more free drinks, before heading out to dinner, and I have to say that everyone was a lot of fun.We had a good time talking to M, R, and S, who was a very respectable, funny guy.   After a very enjoyable dinner, we head back to our rooms to get ready for the party, and all take off to the location in seperate vehicles. 

The party was actually a lot of fun, and we ran into some old friends we hadn't seen in a long time.    They had done some serious work to the place, and The Spott seems to have improved a thousand-fold.  It was actually a very awesome party, with everyone getting up and dancing, just having fun in general.   It was enough fun to change our perspective on visiting the club in the future!

We also had a great time with M and R, along with everyone else in the area.   I was watching a well shaped burnette girl in a nice skirt for about half of the night, and then got to see her a little while later about 20 feet from where we were sitting with her legs spread sitting on a chair, and another girl down between her legs..   She spent a long time between her legs..   Probably at least 45 minutes or more..  The guy she was with looked to have gotten bored, said something to her, and walked away to go talk to some friends..   There were other people in the area saying how the girl between her legs just must not be doing it right, and how they would get her there in much less time...

Meanwhile, both Aly and I are watching, thinking that we would probably spend as much time there as we could too!   lol.    As this is going on, there is another couple on our other side probably 30 feet away playing very heavily as well..    Looking through the people standing around made me realize there were at least 2 people over there..    Everyone seemed to be having a VERY good time...

Anyway, after that finished, and much more dancing and such, M learned back against the wall of our booth, with her leg up on the booth, and Aly leaned back against her, resting her head on M's chest, putting her legs out next to M's.  I watched this for a couple minutes, listening to them talk before walking over and leaning down over both of them, kissing Ally..    I kissed her deeply and softly for a couple minutes, leaning over both of them, and started gently sliding my hand over her body.       Looking up, I noticed M watching how I was kissing Ally, so I moved up and kissed her the same way..  At least, mostly the same way..    There is a difference in how I kill Aly, and how I kiss anyone else that I can't really explain beyond the love that passes between Aly and I...   Maybe the difference is not physical at all?  I dunno..  Anyway, ignore that tangent..   I am kissing M, feeling Aly kiss and rub my chest with her hands, as she reaches around and squeezes my ass.

Looking back, I see that R has appeared, and is rubbing her feet and legs softly, slowly moving his way up her legs, and I go back to kissing and touching the girls.   I would slide my hands over Aly while kissing M, and touch as much of M as I could while kissing Aly..   I felt Aly start to move with R's hands as he slid his fingers into her, causing her soft moans of pleasure...    I noticed a couple times during this, S. started to come over, saw what we were doing, and wandered off..   I was really suprised and impressed as how respectful he actually was being..       The positioning made touching and rubbing M a little more difficult, and so was unable to touch her the same way.  She, however, seemed very happy with being kissed and stroked, or while watching the me kiss and stroke on Aly as R played with her.   That being said, M was also touching on Aly quite a bit, rubbing her hands over her chest...

All in all, it was a lot of fun, ending with Aly having a screaming orgasm as R fucked her with his fingers..  Towards the end of this, S came and sat next to us, touching on M a little, but avoiding Aly as he had not yet been given any sort of permission to touch her..

I do have to say that while I do not like single guys being in the lifestyle, S was by far the best of them that I have met, and have no problems with him.  However, I still did not really want to play with us as a 5-some..  While I would enjoy playing with M and R, I do not want to do it with the added single male..    Since they were all staying in the same room, we headed back to our room for the night when we made it back to the hotel, and had quite a bit of fun ourselves...   including waking neighbors.

I do hope that we did not offend M and R in any way in not going back with them that night..

I dont think so, as they were texting us the next day.  So, perhaps next time?

Finially made it back out!

After wanting to be able to go out and play for months and not being able to, we finially made it out!  

Back to Club Sinsations for another night of fun!  

We hung out at home and played World of Warcraft (yes, we are nerdy sometimes) for a while the first bit of the day, before getting our stuff packed, including skimpy clothing for her, some good looking clothes for me, cleaning supplies, quite a few random toys, and our 'SwingSet' card game, and headed over to the hotel.

It took us a little while to get ready, so we ended up grabbing our drinks and heading to the ball-room a bit later then intended..    On the way in, we ran into the club owner who had Aly's dance pole for us to take back home.  They had helped us out in getting it out to the Ozarks and back for a trip that we all did.  We simply did not have the room to transport it there and back at the time.   After entering the room and finding a place to sit, I ran off to take the pole back to our room.

After I got back, Aly and I sat for a few minutes and had a couple drinks before dancing.  We then got up and wandered around, to see who we could find that we knew.   We first ran into a woman who had seen us in our one and only real bit of drama we have had at any of these in the past, and we stopped and talked with her for a few minutes before moving on.    We said hello to a couple people there that we knew before sitting back at our seats.   Shortly afterwards, M. and R. came by, introducing themselves.  We talked with them for a few minutes, and R. offered us a drink back over at thier table.   We said that we would stop by later, and went seperate ways for the time.

A couple times through the night, Aly and I went seperate ways for whatever reason, such as getting drink refills, and going back to the room for something or other, and I ran into the girl who had seen our drama a couple times.   I talked to her a bit, and she was telling me how seeing aly and I still together through our issues was giving her faith, and just how happy in general she was to see us doing well.   I do not know why, but I came away from the conversation feeling that she would be interested in playing also if we all talked more..     (I am writing this post several weeks after this party)  Looking back, and on being asked, I am not really sure why I got that impression.    Nothing approaching the topic at all had come up.    Perhaps she was touching my arm or some other thing that did not really register at the time?  I am not sure why..    However, I don't think that we will play with her..   not that she is not nice or attractive, but it simply seems strange to us with her having seen us at our worst....

Shortly after M and R came by, we saw another couple we had talked to a few times, and went over and said Hi to them as well.   We ended up sharing a drink or two with them, before heading back in the direction where M and R pointed that they would be.   We talked with them for a few minutes, and before long, we were all on the dancefloor having fun.   I was dancing with M, and Aly with R, all together.  At one point, I remember kissing M, with her fingers roaming my body, and looking over to see R. kissing and touching Aly, touching her as well.   We had a lot of fun with everyone, and ended up inviting both couples back to our room for some fun after the dance.  We all ended up going our seperate directions for awhile, all dancing and having fun.   Several songs later, Aly and I were sitting at our table looking at our drinks and we realized that perhaps we had gone too far on the drinks this time...    While we both would have absolutely loved to play with them back in the room, and perhaps show them our card game, we realized all too late that we probably were not in any condition to do so...

I walked around to talk to everyone and let them know that we had to postpone our plans, and Aly and I went back to our room together, having a whole lot of fun ourselves.

Blog..

This is just a quick post to any who actually read this blog to say that it is not dead, we simply have not made it out recently for various reasons.   There will be more once we do make it.

Wanting to go out

We still have not been able to make it back out since the Swingfest/Show-me events, and are getting anxious.  It looks like the best thing going on in our area is a weekend-long campout at a friends place.    We thought about going, but dont think the weather is going to co-operate.   Between that, and we really want a real bed, we have decided not to attend this event.      

Not that we are against camping, by any means, we simply are not in the mood for it.  

So, we started looking around, and were considering the 8 hour drive to Chicago to check out Couples Choice as we have heard good things about the place, when we found out that we wont be going to any swinging events this weekend anyway, as we are temporarily out of commission.  lol

We may end up going out with the Brother-in-law and his wife..    Where we will end up drinking...   and talking...     Yea, its pretty much decided that if we go drinking with them, they will know by the end of the night.

Hell, last time we went vanilla drinking, we went to the local vanilla bar about 5 blocks away, which is great because we can drink all we want, then walk back home.   This resulted in Ally standing on a barstool, dancing and getting someone else up to do the same.   I THINK she may have flashed real quick, and the other girl may have as well, but honestly had too much to drink to remember that accurately.   A little while later, we were both hitting on the (playful) bartender pretty hard, and her boyfriend there did not seem to mind at all as we were all talking.  

Before we left, Ally gave her out 'lifestyle contact card' and told her to check out the site and or profile, and to get in touch if she liked what she saw, or to destroy it if she didn't.    We heard nothing later.  Suprising, isn't it (sarcasm).  lol

So...  Not sure if we can go there again, but we will see what happens.

Fun Times

This one is not so much a swinging time, but an awesome experience Ally and I had. And if anyone we have, or will play with is reading this, bondage is not something we will do with others.

I was thinking about it earlier in the day, and wanted to do something special for her. Sitting at work I mapped out a basic set of ideas for a couple things I wanted to do to her later, some of which required that I stop by the house before she gets there. I started by sending her a text message telling her what I was thinking of doing to her, and then another telling her to take a second when she could not be seen and side her hand slowly up her inner thigh, lightly brushing over her pussy for a moment while thinking of me slowly sliding deep inside of her. When she told me that she had, I told her that I wanted her to do that every time I sent her a text message through the day, and she agreed. Every hour or so, I would send her a text message telling her some dirty thought I was thinking, or telling her to do something small like that.

When lunchtime came around, I rushed out to the store and grabbed some key foods to take home and once I made it there, got to work placing a few toys in certain areas I could get to them. I unfolded the hide-a-bed downstairs, put some clean sheets on it, and attached our straps with the felt, velcro cuffs down on it before folding it all back up again. Before I left, I checked the mail and found that the gift I had ordered for her had made it just in time, so I sent and set that aside in the house where she would not see before I got to give it to her.

On the way home, I sent her a text message telling her to rub her clit for a moment and slide her finger into her, then to taste herself from her fingers. I have no doubt that she did this just as well as the rest.

A little later, I sent her a message asking if she could make sure to be home by 4, and to send me a text as soon as she arrived as I had some special plans for her.

Once she arrived, I told her to find some clothes she did not care that much about, and to get dressed in those, without a bra after a nice hot shower. As I was on my way home when she finished, I told her to start the water in the tub running on cold, but to just let it drain out, and that I would turn it off when I got there. I also had her find something she liked onthe radio and turn it up, then to find the same on the downstairs radio and turn it up. Once she had all of this finished, I instructed her to put her Hitachi Wand on the bed, pull her pants off, put on the blindfold sitting next to the laptop, and lay down on the bed, starting to play with herself. I said she could not have any orgasm's yet, as I did not want her to wear herself out before I got there.

As soon as I did this, I called Pizza Hut and ordered a pizza to be delivered, debating on making her beleive that someone else was coming in with us as well when the pizza was delivered.

When I came home, I found her laying up on the bed with her legs spread apart, rubbing her pussy with her fingers and softly moaning I loved to see this, so I stood and watched her for a couple minutes, her having no knowledge that I was there due to the noise made by the radio and bathwater. After a couple minutes, I came over and startled her by running my fingers down her inner thigh, and touching her pussy myself. She jumped at first, but quickly grabbed my hand and pushed it down to her pussy. I quickly moved between her legs and started licking her soaking pussy. She was so incredibly wet at this point, it was amazing. After making her cum like this, I whispered that I would be right back.

I went downstairs and started getting a plate of different foods together to take upstairs and play with her. Just as I made it back upstairs though, the doorbell rang. She jumped at this and I said I would be right back, leaving her there blindfolded.

I took the Pizza downstairs and pulled out the sofabed, then went upstairs to lead her, blindfolded, down to the sofabed, where I had her sit against the back of the couch, and strapped her arms down at her sides, so she could not reach anything. This made feeding her quite a bit of fun, with her never knowing what food to expect next. Some of the food, I would rub over her chest, cleaning it up with my lips and tongue before feeding the piece of food to her. This was a new experience for both of us, and turned out to be a lot of fun... When we were done, I led her back upstairs to bed, with full intentions to strap her down there and play with some of the toys we have for quite awhile.. However, that is not exactly what happened.

Instead, I laid her down on the bed, and crawled up next to her and started kissing her and rubbing her soaking pussy. I kept sliding my fingers into her, running my fingertip over her G-spot at the same time as I was rubbing her clit with my other hand. It was not long at all before she was cumming very hard on my hands. I loved feeling her pussy squeeze around my fingers as she came. I also felt her squirt a little bit of fluid into my palm as I continued to rub her.. This was another first, and I loved it!

Like I said, my goal was to get out the toys at this point, but that simply did not work.. I absolutely had to have her, so I crawled between her legs and licked her for another minute before kissing my way up her chest to her neck, and sliding my cock deep inside of her soaking pussy, feeling her legs and arms wrap around me, pulling me into her. I could not resist this at all and just started fucking her hard. Feeling the beginning of her orgasm pushed me over the edge, ending with us crashing together as I came deep inside her, feeling her squeeze me inside of her as we both came together..

God she is so fucking good!

The After-Effects

Well, we managed the long drive to get kids, and then home without too much trouble.  But after a week and a half or so like that...    going back into the vanilla world can be a tough experience!

I found myself talking to all sorts of people about things that would be no big deal where we were, but back in the vanilla world...   is probably too much information.  

Lets just say that several members of our guild on World of Warcraft know about our lifestyle choices now.

Show-Me - Part 3

We got up this morning and headed down for the breakfast buffet for awhile, which turned out pretty well.  We had the same server we always do and talked to her for a few minutes about the event, and how much she loved working with this group.   Its always nice to see the staff at these events actually enjoying themselves tremendously.

Afterwards, we wandered around for awhile before heading back upstairs for a nap.    Honestly, it was awhile ago so I do not remember everything we did during the day.    Poor side effect of things getting posted almost 3 weeks later.   I know we took some friends of ours to the dinner buffet later on with us, and had a nice time talking and flirting with them.

Later on, we got dressed and headed down to the nights party to see what was going on, and ran into some old friends of ours.   These are the people who sort of held our hands as we entered the lifestyle, taking us around and introducing us to everyone.   They of course, being club owners, knew everyone.  This helped us out quite a bit in the beginning.    They also have turned us on to a couple toys we would never have expected...    The whole concept of a 'violet wand' is really quite scary, probably because it can be used for all sorts of things we are definetally not into in regards to pain.   These things even go so far as branding pics.    Although scary, a very gently used one..   Oh my god...   We are going to have to get one of those...

Anyway, we only talked to them for a few minutes, as S. had had way too much to drink and was being fairly disrespectful at the time as his wife was trying desperately to pull him up to bed.   They are a great couple though, and I know no harm was meant by it.

After we spent some time with our friends down at the party, we decided to get dressed and head out to the pool.     When we got there, there were only a couple people out there.   There was someone else out there nude, so we decided to join in as well.   We stripped off all our clothes and jumped into the pool.  Our other friends were down there, but it took some convincing to get them to join us. Once they got in, someone went and grabbed the big pink dirty dice that were floating around in the pool.  

We were all playing with those for awhile before we decided that they just were not dirty enough, and started changing things a little.    Around this time more people started showing up, so we Ally and I decided we would go up to the hot-tub for a while.   One of the hot couples we were with in the pool said they would be up shortly, so we went up and waited there.  

At the hot tub, it seemed that I was the only guy naked there, and the girls were just topless, so I pulled my swimming trunks under the water and put them on covertly in the bubbles, as it is a little uncomfortable for me to be the only naked one in the room.    We sat there in the water talking and playing for probably an hour or so before deciding that our friends must have gotten sidetracked and headed up to our room.

Of course, just as we were walking out, they went walking in to the hot tub area.   We told them that we were getting too hot in there and decided to go up to our room, and they were welcome to come up for drinks if they liked.   They said they would probably be up there in a little while, so when we got back to our room, we made sure to leave the door cracked as we grabbed us some drinks and talked for awhile, perving some of our friends pictures on C4P.com. 

Eventually, we closed the door, and drifted off to sleep.  We have gotta find someone to play with soon after that sexual high Swingfest left us on.  lol

Show-Me - Part 2

Friday morning we headed down to the Breakfast buffet, which turned out to be pretty good. We missed the seminars we wanted to make it to yesterday, so wanted to make sure we made at least one today.

We made it to the 'Erotic Group Massage' seminar a little early, so we went in and had a seat for a little while. Being a seminar, I expected someone speaking, or some sort of instruction.   Thats not really what happened here though. They brought in 2 massage tables and had a girl lay down on each.  The person running the class said they wanted to make sure everyone got a chance to be on the table, but wanted to focus on the girls first, just to make sure they had time to get them in.   Then they had everyone in the room lotion up thier hands, and start massaging the people on the tables.    We did this for a couple minutes, expecting there to be some sort of instruction on what to do, but there was none.  

In a group we knew, this might be an awesome experience, but in a room with 40 people we had never met or spoken to at all before, this seemed a little overwhelming, so we decided to make our exit from the room.  A few minutes later, we realized we had left our drinks in there, but did not want to go back in for them..

A friend of ours was supposed to be in the fashion show down by the pool, so we got in swim-wear and headed down there for awhile.  The pool was absolutely packed with people, and to be honest, I dont think there was a fashion show going on.  We did hang out awhile though, and got to see the awesome wet t-shirt contest..   Apparently, the T-shirt was really just an accessory.   The event provided the T-shirts to use for it, and most of them were torn up by the contestants to be a bit more revealing.    By the time it got to the one person who did leave the T-shirt on and look like she was expecting a regular wet t-shirt contest, she just pulled it off and threw it in the pool before starting to dance.   It really was sexy as hell to watch them up there dancing and grinding, doing everything they could to get the loudest applause..  A couple of them were even masturbating with the spray of water from the hose.   So, not really a wet t-shirt contest, but probably more fun! 

Later that night, we went out to dinner with a couple friends of ours who we had been talking to for awhile. That really went extremely well.  However, me having been sick, and even though the doc said I would no longer be contagious by now,  led us to head our seperate ways afterwards.  I just dont want to risk getting anyone else sick.

We went up to our rooms and got a couple drinks while getting ready for the nights dance.   We did run into a few more couples that we knew when we were down there, but all in all, the dance did not compare with this clubs normal dances.   I really think it had something to do with the layout of the dance floor this time.  It was still a whole lot of fun though.   Later, we ended up going to up bed and fucking each other before falling asleep in each others arms.

Show-Me - Part 1

Here we are on our first full day here at the Show-Me convention, and what happens?  I wake up feeling sick.  So, we get up and run out to find a doctor that accepts walk-ins as we dont want this to end up ruining the trip.    

We found one who said it was just a little infection, and gave me some antibiotics, and said I couldn't kiss anyone for 24 hours.    Damn!

We got back to the hotel and sat by the pool for awhile, watching the people partying there before going upstairs to get ready for the nights party.   I figure while I may not be able to kiss at all or touch much, its still fun to go!

It did not take us long to realize the impromptu party out at the pool was a lot more exciting then the one inside, so we headed out that way.    We only ended up there about 10 minutes before I realized I did not have a room key, so we went to the reception desk to take care of that, and by the time we made it back up to our room, we just ended up crashing early. 

Show-Me Convention

Today we did the long ass drive to Davenport, IA from Kansas City so we could drop the 3 kids off with my mom and head down to the Show-Me Convention in the Ozarks.   All in all, this made the trip to the Ozarks, which are about 3 hours away, a long 12 hour drive. 

I will say the portion of the drive after we dropped the kids off seemed to go by much faster.   I think some of this may have been the fact that I dozed for part of it, but more importantly, we had in-car entertainment in the form of Girlvana 3 being played on the laptop.   Its amazing how much a little girl-porn can do to make a trip go eaisier.

We ended up getting to the hotel fairly late, and found that we did not get the beach side of the hotel as we had requested, but another couple we knew did.  We figure the week with the ocean-view room at Swingfest was enough, and as they had limited availibility, chose not to make an issue of it.    After all, the staff at this resort is great. Last time we were here, the bartenders were dancing through the crowd with the drinks and shaking thier asses as much as anyone else. It was great!  We arrived too late to do too much, but we went and wandered around the party downstairs for a little bit, trying to see who we knew that was already there. We did not see nearly as many familiar faces as we expected.

Shortly after, we headed back upstairs to fuck each others brains out before crashing for the night.

Returning Home.

We woke up this morning, finished packing everything back up and headed out to the airport.   When we got there, we had to pay the lady at the check in desk $30 simply for checking baggage.    While I knew one of the bags was overweight, she asked for the $30 before even weighing them.    When asked why I had to pay her for bags she had not weighed yet, she told me it was standard policy.

Anyway, I think I pissed her off or something because for the first time in my life (which has involved a LOT of air travel) when we got to the security checkpoint, the TSO offier looked at our tickets and had us step aside for the more through search of our stuff, and a pat-down..  Now, normally this would probably have aggrivated me more, but given that we had plenty of time, and had jsut come from SwingFest, I found it funny.    It made me wish we had put more of our free swag from swingfest in our carry-on!

The guy patted me down, during which I somehow managed to refrain from messing with him and saying I enjoyed it, or even telling him where we just came from.    I was, however, wearing the Swingercast shirt at this point though.    Ally's patdown was probably more through then it needed to be.  The female officer there checked her bra clasp about 5 times, and rubbed down her legs to the point where Ally had to say to the officer that if she kept doing it, she was going to see more then intended.  At this point the guard looked up and stopped.  

When going through our stuff, she was looking at some of the stuff we had and we could see she was trying very hard not to giggle at some of it.   There was a small penguin stuffed animal in there, and she turned it over and wiped a cloth along its bottom, testing for something or other.    As she did this, I could not help but jokingly say to Ally, 'Well after that, I am sure Gwynn has a molestation case of some sort there.'.   At this, it was funny because the officer stopped what she was doing and looked down for a second, the strain to stop from laughing fairly obvious before she started stuffing stuff back in the bag and handing it to us.    All in all, we had fun with it.

Anyway...  Here it is late Monday night and we are back home to the kids.   Time to take grandparents to the airport, unpack, wash clothes, take the kids out for a day, repack, and get ready for the 500 mile drive to the next swinger convention Wednesday morning!

We are starting to need a break..

Swingfest - Day 4!

Well, things seem to be slowing down a bit now, as people seem to be slowly leaving the event. Sadly, we had to say goodbye to several of our friends bright and early out in the hall. Hopefully, we will get to see them again sometime soon.

We napped for a little while, then around 3 or so decided to head out to Haulover Beach. Part of the SwingFest package included free shuttle transportation to the beach, and we had heard it was supposed to have one of the top 10 nude beaches in the world. Having never been to a nude beach, we figured it was a good place to start!

So we get our stuff ready and head down to wait for the shuttle to arrive.. and wait.. and wait.. and wait.. Finially, the shuttle arrives and as we are getting on, we notice that the last shuttle back to the Westin leaves the beach about 2 hours from now. Oh well, our time might be limited, but we will still have fun.

The bus driver drops us off and points out the door saying, 'its that way.' We got off the bus and walked a little ways before realizing that while the beach was that way, the part we were looking for was a little ways down the beach. So, we wandered down there, found a spot that did not have too many people there, and spread our towels out to lay down on.

We get undressed, sit on the towels, and start applying sunscreen (of which we used most of a bottle.. We really do not want to burn certain areas lol) and notice a guy walking around handing out passes to a fetish ball in Ft. Lauderdale. As the guy walked up, I could not help but notice he had a Prince Albert piercing that had to be larger then 1/4" in diameter! Between that, and the cock-ring he was wearing, it really was an interesting sight... of which I tried to avoid looking at, as the thought makes me squeamish. We layed out in the sun nude for awhile and fount that it really is an absolutely amazing feeling. I dont think I have ever felt anything quite like that.

I expected to be nervous going there, as neither of us had ever been to nude beach before, but once you walk out to it, you actually feel out of place wearing clothes. Getting rid of them made me a lot less nervous then wearing them out there. I think that is something we will definetally have to do again sometime.

Anyway, we decided to go swimming (no sex in the ocean this time as we heard word they were having a hard time keeping it open, and we did not want to help the case to close it) and playing in the ocean. Ally kept telling me how weird it felt to feel her breasts moving free with the waves the way they were, although in reality, she did not need to tell me as I could feel things moving with the waves more freely then I was used to myself. The whole experience was absolutely wonderful, and something I highly recomment people should do.

Once we got back to the hotel, we had a little while before we had to get ready to go to Miami Velvet, so we went and grabbed drinks to hang out by the pool with for awhile. When we got down there, we ran into John, Allie, and more of our friends from the group. We sat around chatting for awhile, answering questions out of a 'Would you Rather' book, and watching all the kids play in the pool. As our event was mostly over, the hotel was allowing Vanilla couples and families back in the pool. I really think there should have been another day before they were allowed back in considering the package was sold as a 2 or 4 day deal, but everyone was behaving themselves well.

Eventually, we headed back upstairs to order ourselves a pizza for dinner before getting dressed up for the club. Originally we were not going to go due in part to how poorly the Trapeze event went, but we heard so many people raving about Miami Velvet, that we had to give it a shot. We got down to wait for the bus and it seemed a lot of people felt the same way.

We get to the club, and after getting our drinks to the bartender, start to wander our way around the club to see what it had to offer. When we first got in, it looked like it was a fairly small place, with not much to see, but once we started exploring, we saw just how big this place is. We had never been to anything even close to like this. For one, there were only a couple on-premise clubs we had been to, and those are more like warehouses with a dance floor and tables, with maybe a cage or stripper pole. This place had quite a few rooms with different themes to explore. There were elevated beds in plain view of a large room, as well as little rooms where you could get some privacy. There were rooms full of mirrors, rooms with windows between them, but no way anyone else could see, a room setup like a living room with a massive TV playing porn, and a bunch of couches, and a room with a HUGE hot tub in it. We have GOT to make it back to this place sometime... I desperately wish that something like this would open in Kansas City, so we could visit more often!

We had never managed to play in a play-room at a club, so decided that this was the perfect opportunity for us. We found a small empty room in the back stepped in, and closed the door. We had been making out and rubbing each other when the door opens. We turn and look and there is a couple standing there, drinks in hand, fully dressed. They look at us for a second and ask if we mind if they stay. We say sure, then we scoot over to the side of the bed making room for them, and start playing with each other again. After a couple minutes, I realize they are not moving. I look up and they are both still standing there by the closed door with drinks in hand, just watching. While I dont mind being watched, having it done like that is just weird to me, so I start to get up, saying this is not going to work. They get the hint and leave as soon as I do, so I close and lock the door behind them. Ally and I start playing again, and end up fucking like mad for about a half hour. I swear someone tried to open that door every 3-5 minutes the whole time we were in there. I thought a closed door meant you wanted some privacy? Oh well, maybe I misunderstood something.

We will have to play with other couples next time we go there! (We have this thing where the first time to a place, we always have a play session together before we will really get down with anyone else)

When we got back to the hotel, we went down to the mostly empty pool area, and sat in the hot-tub for awhile. It seemed we were the last ones out there, and after a little while, Ally and I got out and she ended up sitting on the cement next to the tub, and me in one of the many nearby chairs. She said how comfortable she was there, and laid back on the cement. I am not sure how long we were there but I woke up a little while later laying in the chair, and went over to wake her up, still laying on the cement. Before heading off to bed, I went and played in the infinity pool a little bit more, knowing how much I was going to miss this place after we left.

All in all, this was an amazing trip, and we definetally can not wait to go again next year!

Swingfest - Day 3!

We woke up this morning fairly exhausted from yesterday's activities, but excited about what today would have in store for us! After some morning snuggling, we jumped out of bed and got showered and dressed to make sure we would make it down to Breakfast in time. While they had had plenty of food for Dinner last night, I didn't want to push our luck on breakfast. To our delight however, there was no reason to be concerned, as everything went off very well as far as we could tell. We did hear on our way down people talking about the massive girl party on the 21st floor! Thats us! WOOHOO!

As we had never finished checking out the exhibition floor, we decided to head that way and check out the rest of the offerings. We actually had a good time in here and found some rather interesting things. Some of the boots did not exactly seem to fit in, such as the real estate agency with ads up selling everything from $5 million homes right on up to $200 million office buildings

We ran into someone selling a swingers game that we took a look at. It did not look to be that interesting, but what was fun was how the salesman was attempting to pitch his sale. He said that he and his wife designed the product after going to swinger parties for many, many years, and playing one too many games of 'Swinger Jenga'. The funny part about this was that we had never heard of Swinger Jenga, so of course started asking questions about that. He said it's just where people take a regular Jenga set and write different actions on the blocks, but its not anything commercial. He kept trying to divert attention back to his game, but we left the booth talking to each other about trying Swinger Jenga more then anything else. lol

Then, there was the booth setup by a porn star trying to sell her videos of some sort of sex Olympics. As we walked by, the porn star was over by the table, faced away from us, bent over doing something on the ground. Honestly, it was a fairly hot sight. The guy trying to make the sale caught us as we walked by and started taking to us about the video. He was telling us about all these different types of fetish things that were in the videos (that we have NO interest in. Fisting.. Gaping.. rough spanking..) and we really were not paying that much attention. The concept was interesting, as they had a website setup where you could go sign up, and submit videos of yourself doing things. Apparently, if you got enough votes, they called you in and you did some live shows or something like that, and they made a video out of that. Whoever they decided was the best from that, apparently got to have sex with the porn star. Like I said however, interesting concept, but really not interested in this one. Anyway, eventually the porn star stood up and saw us standing there, so she came over to talk to Ally and me. She was.. not very impressive, and we wandered off.

We saw a few porn stars while we were there, and I have to say, they really were not the most attractive people there, and I honestly think most of them could use a cheeseburger every now and then. I MUCH prefer real women to the plastic people. I am not talking about fake breasts here at all. Those dont bother me. I just think there is a point where you need to let it go and live your life. Too many plastic surgeries, too much makeup, and not enough food just doesn't do it for me.

Enough on that, as there are much more important things to talk about! To anyone who is going to get cranky about it is reading, this next part is purely fiction. To the rest of you, we had a good time!

After we finished exploring the exhibition floor, we went back up to our room, and got ready to head out and go swimming out in the ocean. The water out there was Wonderful! I am not sure how many from the resort made it out to the ocean (as it was a public beach) but you really missed out if you didn't make it. I swim much like a rock, but I love to play in the ocean, and it was cool here because we could wade out quite a ways into the water here.

After we got a ways out there and were just playing around with the waves, and each other a bit, she comes over and wraps her legs around me under the water, hugging me. I hug her back and look around, seeing there wasn't anyone too close to us. So I slid a hand around her lower back, holding her against me, and another down behind her, feeling how slick her pussy was. At her smile, I did the responsible thing and slid my swimming shorts down a bit, exposing my cock before sliding her bikini bottoms to the side, and sliding her down onto me. We stayed like that without moving much on her own for awhile, feeling the waves move her up and down on me as we continued to hug and talk with each other. She was definitely excited enough to be staying very lubricated, even in the ocean water. After a while, continuing to look around to make sure noone was getting too close, I grabbed her hips, moving her against me as she stayed wrapped around me, just floating there. I kept trying to keep us away from people, but it seemed for awhile fate was just out to get us. It seemed that every time I got close, a wave would wash over my head, or someone would get too close. One time, we looked up to see a couple kids swimming around a little ways off, so we had to stop for a few and move much further away again. Then, there was the hotel staff guy on the jet-ski who drove past us on his way to do something with a buoy, then again on his way back. Or the boat that slowly floated by, as we were out near the buoy's.. This was starting to get a little frustrating! Eventually though, we got the break we needed, and we were able to finish. Afterwards, we swam around and played in the water a bit more, before heading back inside to get ready for dinner.

You know, that was probably another of our hottest times.. We have had sex in water such as pools before, but never in something with waves like that that would move us together like that.. It was fucking awesome!

Ok, that marks the end of the 'fiction' portion of the story. We would never do anything nearly so irresponsible as having sex in the ocean at a public beach. Thats just wrong! *cough* *cough*

Our last buffet type meal of the trip turned out very well also. Hopefully they will remember the mistakes they corrected, and some they did not this time around, so this can all be done better at next years SwingFest!

Anyway, we then got ready for the parties downstairs, hoping they would be better then they seemed to be last night. On the way down, we made a detour to check out the new playrooms we had heard about. SwingFest had heard the complaints about the way the playrooms were setup, and moved them into separate rooms. The new rooms were much smaller then the conference rooms, but were sectioned off much better so there would be a little bit more 'privacy' for those who wished to play, them not having to be on display in front of the ENTIRE party. We dont mind the attention, but not sure we want to have quite that much from entirely uninvolved people.

Thinking they did a better job with the playrooms, we wandered down to the party, intending to get back up to the playrooms later in the night. As soon as we walked into the area where the parties were, we ran into someone in our group, who pointed us to where everyone else was located. We found them a couple minutes later in a corner of one of the parties, right in front of where one of the porn star's VIP area was.

I have to say, everyone in our group looked awesome, but K. definitely stole the show... I think Ally is still about to cum every time she thinks of K. in that outfit. At one point, she was sitting on seat there in the corner with her legs spread open. In that sexy as hell corset, and those awesome boots she was wearing, she was pretty much irresistible. Ally did something fairly unusual for her, and sat down on the floor by K's foot and just started touching her leg. After watching her do this for a moment, I saw what was the best seat in the place, and sat next to Ally, between K's legs, and started running a hand lightly over K's leg and thigh, and the other over Ally's leg and thigh. I could not help myself, after sitting like this touching both of them for a couple minutes, I slid my hand further up K's leg and started rubbing her pussy through her panties.

I looked around and realized that we had gathered quite a large crowd around us, watching what we were all doing. The crowd watching us was bigger then the crowd ever was watching the porn stars in the corner trying to get attention.

It was funny because for awhile the porn stars had their camera crews there in the corner, only a few feet from us, and they kept trying to swing the camera around, getting panorama shots of the party, and trying to capture what we were doing. However, every time their camera came close, everyone in our group would turn our backs, as none of us really wants that kind of attention. At one point, almost immediately after those cameras went by, John pulled out his camera and snapped a couple pictures, which of course everyone was more then happy to jump in front of. I am sure the porn stars camera crews loved that. He got a picture of Ally's head between K's legs.. That reminds me, I want to see if I can get a copy of that one. After awhile, we ended up heading back upstairs and pouring ourselves a couple more drinks before going over to the far more private party!

Once we got in the room, it was not long at all before people started losing clothes. At one point, just from the way people were moving about, I ended up as the only guy on the bed with somewhere between 5 and 8 women! Everyone naked of course. Granted, most of them were paying attention to each other, but still, it was absolutely awesome! I had an Ally on each side of me. My wife on one side, and Allie from SwingerCast on the other.

Then, there was yet another first for us. Ally got on her hands and knees on the bed, and I started fucking her from behind, when another guy came up in front of her and asked if her mouth was available. She said yes, and started sucking on him as I was taking her. It really was an awesome sight, and something I know she had wanted to do for awhile. Talking to her about it later, she was telling me that it was actually quite a bit harder to do then she expected it to be, but that she absolutely loved every second of it.

After the party, we went back to our room to get swimwear on so we could go down to the pool, but never made it down. You see, during the party, I had decided to not finish, not knowing what else the night had in store.. So, once we got back to the room, we ended up very distracted very quickly.. Again, resulting in some very deep sleep. On a side note, I love that the Westin has such insanely comfortable beds, considering the amount of time we spent in them. They were almost as good as the one we have at home!

Swingfest - Day 2!

Today, we slept in for a little while, but still managed to get up, showered, and dressed in time to make it down to one of the conference rooms for the free breakfast buffet at 11. I had planned to wear my new SwingerCast shirt, but we found that we had apparently left our bag of stuff over at Rivals... Damn... The food selection was not bad, but for the most part, it was not very good food. We found a table to sit with for awhile, and talked with the others who were already there. After about a half hour though, we noticed them clearing the buffet table! The buffet was supposed to continue for another hour and a half or so!

Word finally made way around the table that they had actually run out of breakfast food to serve. There were quite a few people (understandably) upset about this, but luckily, there were other food options in the area.

Anyway, we decided to check out a couple of the seminars after finding out that Rivals did not still have our lost bag, and we went to the seminar that John from SwingerCast was putting on, called "Ok, Its on! Now what?" This was a very good seminar as it gave a lot of ideas on how to actually get the sex started once everyone agrees its going to happen. It helps with those times when people decide they are all going to have sex, and end up standing around looking at each other, everyone waiting for someone else to make the first move. We had a very good time here, with everyone getting a chance to share their thoughts and ideas on the subject as well.

Next, we went to the 'Unlearning Vanilla Marriages' seminar. This one was obviously completely scripted, and did not seem to have a whole lot of information that was new to me, although the hilarious presenter did present some views in ways I had not thought of.. Some of those ways of describing/looking at things may come in handy in the future..


We left that seminar what we thought was early, and found a bunch of people waiting around outside that conference room so they could start the next seminar, 'Female Ejaculation'. This was one that we were Really looking forward to seeing... however, Ally was rubbing up against me, and telling me how much she wanted me the entire time we were in the 'Unlearning Vanilla Marriages' seminar... Needless to say, we went upstairs and did some pretty amazing fucking, missing the seminar. I believe that while the seminar may have been interesting, the time was MUCH better spent in bed with her.. This resulted in a bit of a nap afterwards. lol


When we awoke, we decided to wander out and explore some more and to try and find the Play Rooms we were so looking forward to. Everything we had said that they should be open from 3PM until 5AM. However, we were unable to find anything at this point, and heard rumor they were going to be inside the parties. So, we decided to go take a look at the exhibit hall.


We only made it about halfway through this time, but saw all sorts of cool toys, and scored lots of free swag! At one point, we passed one of the booths with a porn star sitting there, and she attempted to sell me, for $5.00, a raffle ticket to win a date with her! I politely declined. It seems to me that some of the porn stars there were slightly out of their element. I think they expect to be the center of attention for everyone, but at a convention such as this, nobody really cares that much. After all, we are in a location with 4999 other couples that we can probably date for free! (and with whom we quite honestly have a higher chance of ending it nicely if things go well)

Anyway, we checked the time and realized that the Dinner buffet would be starting soon, so we skipped the rest of the exhibition hall for the time being, knowing how breakfast went. I do have to say though, that the food was MUCH better this time around, and I believe that they actually had enough to cover everyone this time. While they may have messed up a couple things so far, I need to make sure to give them credit for the improvements they make. This is, after all, their first event like this.

After dinner, we went upstairs and got ready for the parties downstairs. As we were going into the room to get ready, we were approached by someone else in our group who was asking if we would be willing to open up our connecting door for a girl orgy later that night. A Girl Orgy? This could be interesting... This was also something we had never done, so we of course say absolutely!


We went downstairs to the parties for a little while, very excited to find the playrooms.. The parties rooms were not bad, although I think they should have put the bar's inside the rooms instead of out in the hallway, as the rooms did not seem to have too many people in them, whereas the hallway was PACKED. The parties, while very cool, did not seem to be quite what they were advertised to be, as the only differences between them were the music being played, and the way the lighting was done.



The 'playrooms' we were so excited to find turned out to be simply blow-up mattresses thrown on the floor inside the party rooms, with some curtains around them in most parties. A couple parties had no curtains, just the mattresses. While a few of them were taken, as we wandered around we noticed that even on the ones with the curtains, the curtains were simply slid all the way open anyway, so were really fairly useless. The parties did not seem to really be picking up too much, and the time for the girl orgy to start was fast approaching, so we headed upstairs.


Seeing the neighbors door closed and locked, we opened our connecting door and knocked on the other side, with no response, so after a couple minutes, Ally knocked again, and stuck her head out in the hallway for a moment. A second later, our neighbors opened the hallway door and ally laughed and said, 'Nope, wrong door.' So they laughed and closed it again. We stood waiting for the other connecting door to happen for a couple minutes before we realized the miscommunication. Disappointedly thinking that maybe the girl-orgy had been cancelled, we
started to head back downstairs to the parties when someone ran up to us in the hallway and
asked if we were coming down to it. It was still on! GREAT!

So we walk into the room and there are a bunch of people in there standing/sitting around, and a couple girls mostly nude on the bed. We stand by the wall and watch whats going on in the room for a second before one of the girls on the bed beckons ally over, at which point another guy and I sit on the ledge of the tub next to the bed as Ally takes off her top and skirt and sits on the edge of the bed in just her thong. Within moments of this, she is in the middle of a group of girls all kissing and touching each other.

Some of the details are a bit fuzzy at this point, as it actually happened almost 2 weeks ago, but I remember sitting there watching Ally leaned back on the bed with her legs spread and an incredibly hot woman down between them, licking her pussy as another sexy woman kissed her deeply, while playing with her chest. This is something I know she has desperately wanted for a Very long time! It was so amazing and wonderful to watch! At the same time, however, incredibly difficult to not jump in and help them out... I was tempted to, but did not want the girl party to end!

After a little while, a couple of the girls started getting a couple of the guys involved, so I went over and sat next to Ally for a couple minutes, talking to her about how insanely hot everything was as she touched and kissed on me. Within a couple minutes, I was rubbing her pussy with my hand as she was laying across the head of the bed, making out with the guy on the other side. As I slid my fingers into her, she started going down on the other guy, which she did for a couple more minutes.. She was so damned hot to watch working on him like that.

Then she turned around, looked up at me and smiled as she wrapped her lips around my cock, being encouraged by the other guy the whole time. The guy just kept telling her how good she looked, and how he loved to watch her suck on me, which was of course just turning me on more. She then moved up and I straightened my legs out as she slid her legs over me, straddling my hips, sliding her pussy down onto me. I looked up into her eyes and slid my hands up over her hips, pulling her down on me as the other guy just kept telling her how much he loved to watch her fuck me. We ended up fucking each other pretty rigorously there as he watched the whole time, telling us how hot we were together.

You know, while I didn't mind being watched by people, I had never experienced anything quite like that. I have to say though that hearing him telling her how hot she was, how much he loved to watch her, and guiding her in what he liked to watch her to do me was absolutely amazing! That situation was probably one of the hottest times we have had in this. I do have to say to that guy, if you are reading this, that you are probably one of the most complimentary people I have ever met, and trust me, it is completely appreciated on all sides.

Anyway, after all this Ally and I went down to the pool to unwind a little bit before bed, and ended up bouncing between the infinity pool and the hot tub a little bit again. We did manage to run into someone else who was up in the room with us and swam around talking to them for a little while. This ended up with me having both Ally and the other girl rubbing up next to me, doing a very good job of getting me all good and hard again. After a few minutes of this, Ally and I had to excuse ourselves back up to our room for the night.. Getting out, we noticed that clothing seemed to be falling off of people in the pool, and in fact, ran into security who were on thier way out to request that it find itself reattached to thier bodies again.

Will post our adventures on day 3 of Swingfest in the next couple of days.

Swingfest - Day 1!

Happy Birthday To Me!!

What a way to spend a birthday!

Last night, we finished getting our stuff packed so we would be good and ready for this trip that we have waited so long for, and then went to find out confirmation information for the trip. Well, our flights have been changed by the airlines about 4 times since we originally purchased the tickets about a year ago, and in looking at the last information they sent us, They have us Leaving Kansas City, stopping in Milwaukee, and then flying from Milwaukee to Ft. Lauderdale. This all looks great. However, for the trip back, they have us on a direct flight from Milwaukee to Kansas City... Umm.. how are we supposed to get to Milwaukee?

So, we call thier help line and they tell us that as it is 2 in the morning, there is no management availiable, and that the best she can do is put us on a plane flying back Sunday morning, instead of the original Monday night. This will pull 2 days out of our vacation! No way! Ok.. we will deal with this with the gate agent in the morning. So, we finially get to lay down to try and sleep at around 3 in the morning.

We get a knock on the bedroom door at around 4:30 at home from the father-in-law (who is staying at the house while we are gone so he can watch the kids) telling us that we need to get up and get going. While normally we are slow to rise, the excitement about the trip got us up and moving pretty quick! After he dropped us off, we talked to the gate agent, who was Very helpful, and within a few minutes got us setup on a different carrier's flight leaving Ft. Lauderdale only a few hours earlier then initially planned! WOOHOO! Thats one major stress off our backs!

Anyway, after a VERY long, excited plane ride, layover, plane ride, wait for luggage, wait for shuttle, we finially make it onto the shuttle. We wait a couple moments, and hear the driver ask another guy that was about to get on the shuttle where he was going... The Westin! So Aly and I pass a couple smiles back and forth as he gets on the bus, and he starts talking to us. After a few minutes of small talk, he quietly says that he is in town for a big party that people were coming from all over the country for. As soon as we looked and said, 'We know. We are going to swingfest too" he broke into a massive smile, and started talking very fast about all his plans and such. It made the ride quite a bit of fun.

As soon as the shuttle driver pulls into the parking lot, a security officer runs to the window and yells inside at the people in the shuttle, 'What are you doing here?!?' So we give him a strange look and mention that we are with the event. As soon as he hears this, he is all smiles and points the driver to where we need to be unloaded. We walk into the place, luggage in tow, thinking back to all the people we have heard saying that when they made it early, they had to wait several more hours before thier room was ready. We find the LONG registration line, and jump in the back of it so we can get signed in. After about 10 minutes or so, I look behind us and see a couple shirts that have the logo of the group we are going with, so I point them out to Aly, and we both sit for a couple minutes trying to figure out who they are, when finially they look up and us and seem to recognize us immediatly! Once we got to a corner in the line, we talked while we could and learned who they were, and that they were only a couple doors away from us. We had not even made it to our rooms yet and were becoming friends with several other couples! This is awesome!

We finially get to the event reservation, get our armbands, and free goodie bag, and make our way over to the next line so we can get our room. Thankfully, it is ready for us, and she hands the key right over. Cool!

We get in the room, unpack our stuff, making the room nice and pretty for any guests, and take a look around. This place is awesome! We have a balcony overlooking the pools and the ocean. The pools themselves are the coolest thing I have ever seen! There is one large one with gently curves that spans the witth of the resort, and it has a bridge going over it. On the bridge, and the land around it, is another large, rectangle pool. There is a glass pane in the bottom of the top pool, allowing you to see the people in the pool below, and for them to look up and see you. The water on the top pool overflows its edges into a crevice on the side, creating a cool waterfall into the pool below... Both pools of course, are salt-water, and the top one has neon lights that slowly change colors. All in all a magnificant sight!

After we got everything straightened up, we decided to start exploring the place, checking it out. No sooner then we opened our hotel room door, then we saw a large gathering of our group standing in the hall, so we decided to introduce ourselves to everyone. We had talked to most of them periodically on the groups forums and a social networking site for quite awhile, so it was good to get to meet most of them. Some of them have known each other for a long time, and have done trips together previously. We ended up wandering into another couples room for a couple minutes, with several others as well, and before we knew it, there were a couple people going down on a naked girl laying on the bed, and another girl giving a guy a blowjob next to the bed. Aly looked at each other and smiled, knowing that this was going to be an awesome trip already. However, since we had not had time to play together yet ourselves in this awesome place, we gracefully made our exit, knowing that there will be plenty of time for us to all play over the next few days. We just needed to make sure we got our time together in this magnificant getaway first.

We wandered back to our room for a few minutes to talk about what just happened before taking back off and exploring the rest of the resort. I just cant say enough just how awesome this place is!

On the way back, we met the couple that was staying in the room where the leader of our group was supposed to be staying, and they seemed to be pretty cool too.

A couple hours later we went to our groups meet-and-greet at Rivals across the street, where we participated in a gift exchange, and got to meet most of the rest of our group.. which consists entirely of VERY cool people! We are going to miss you all desperately when this is over! We gave out a pack of 10 small containers of body lube, and got back a bag that had a small cock ring, and some pasties with dials on them that worked sorta like dirty dice. Then, John from SwingerCast got up on a chair and said a few things about the trip, and how good it was to get to meet everyone, before telling us that he had made up some free Swingercast shirts, and that we could each have one.

I also grabbed a big stack of the swingercast cards, planning to put them out at some of the clubs around home. While the swingercast show is awesome, nothing compares to the group of people that we met going to this event!

We got a couple drinks, and shared some chicken wings while we were there, not planning on eating too much as Trapeze, the club we were going to later that night, was supposed to have some great food out on buffet. So we finished up here, and headed back to the hotel, needing to get ready to head out to the club.

Ally and I both got dressed up in some of the nicest stuff we brought, headed down to where we were going to meet everyone for the bus, and met up with our group. After a short wait, we all jumped on the 2 buses that were our free transportation to Trapeze. The transportation, and the admission to Trapeze were all free with our swingfest admission. This part, we had been especially looking forward to forever, as Ally had heard about Trapeze for years.

We all wait on the bus until about 20 minutes after it was supposed to have left before we started moving. The way everything sounded, this should just be a quick, 5 minute car ride! 45 minutes later, we finially pulled into the parking lot. This club does not look from the outside to be much nicer then anything we have in kansas city, but thats not suprising with the way most of these clubs are. We all get in line outside the club and wait for them to let us in.

... and wait..

... and wait..

Eventually I say something to Ally that with this many people standing around outside a building in this area at this time, the cops should be around any second trying to find out whats going on. Sure enough, a minute later, 2 police cars pull into the parking lot and park, just watching. Almost immediatly afterwards, someone steps out from the building and says that apparently the person from swingfest was supposed to come by with a check and pay the amount so that we could all get in, but they had never made it. He explained that we could come in, but we would have to pay him the $60 and then get reimbursed from SwingFest for it! This is something we had already paid for! After a couple more minutes, we decide that we are not doing this, since it seems the busses had stopped running as well! Last thing we want is to pay 60 to get in, and another 60 for a taxi back home afterwards. We eventually jump into a cab with 3 other couples.. its a very tight fit, and all take the long ride back to the resort. We get there and split the cost of the cab between us, making that a bit better.

Later that night, we heard that swingfest WAS reimbursing the money to those who went, and that while it was not bad there, it was way too crouded, and that there were a bunch of single males there.

We did, however, hear that they had started an impromptu party here at the hotel, so we made our way over to that. All they had was a small bar, and music playing in the ballroom, but people were still dancing and having fun, so we did that for a little while, before heading back up to our room. Once there, I stood and looked out the window for awhile before realizing there were still a couple people swimming around in the pool! It must still be open! So we got dressed real quick and ran down there to play in the water.

First we got in the bottom pool, which we found was very cold... Too cold to stay in, so we decided to check out the hot tub. The hot tub was great, and empty, so we sat in that for a good while, just relaxing in the water and talking. Eventually, we got up just as someone else was walking over, and they said the top pool was a lot warmer then the bottom one. Thanking them, we moved up to the top pool to give it a shot. It really was pretty warm! So, we jumped in there for awhile too. We ended up bouncing back and forth between the hot tub and the top pool a few times over the course of a couple hours. Standing in the top pool, I would take Ally in to my arms, and spin her around slowly, looking into her eyes and kissing her deeply.

All through this, i could periodically see people on the balconies up above looking down at us.

As we headed in, I asked a guard when they were planning on closing the pool, and he said they weren't going to. It was going to stay open through the entire event! Anyway, Ally and I headed up stairs to our room, and fell into each others arms in bed, making love before falling asleep to some MUCH needed rest.

Going to SwingFest!

I am getting SO excited about our upcoming trip!!

We have been planning this trip for a little less then a year now, and its FINIALLY almost upon us!

Then, we have another trip immediatly after to go to Club S.'s convention in the Ozarks with about 500 other couples!

Everything at Swingfest is already bought and paid for, thankfully. About a year ago, we heard of the event and thought it sounded cool, so knowing we needed a vacation this summer, decided to plan this one! It wasn't until a few months ago that we decided we needed to find a group to go with. So, after some searching, we ended up with the group for one of the biggest vendors for the show, Swingercast, with about 35 other couples. We have been talking with them on thier forums and via an internet chat/blog service for awhile now, and they are just getting us more, and more excited!

Last Friday we picked up Alys parents from the airport, as they will be staying with the kids while we are gone, and are staying with us until we leave (No, they do not know) Its funny, because Monday when Aly and I were at work her parents were picking up the house, trying to help us out. Apparently, her dad found a pair of her thong panties. lol. So, her step-mom tried to tell him that it was actually just a headband! (we are hoping it didn't get put on anyone in a demonstration. ICK!)

I will be meeting with the owner of Club S. tonight so that he can transport Aly's dance pole to thier convention in the Ozarks for us. They are such cool people to help us out like that! But we normally keep it in a locked case under the bed. It looks exactly like a gun case if you dont already know what it is. I had to sneak that out of the house and into the back of the car this morning, unsure of what I was going to say it was if they caught us! Oh well, with all the toys we have, they are bound to find something. Thats why we plan to take as many as we can with us!

Tomorrow morning at some god ugly early time, we hop on the plane, and will be landing in Ft. Lauterdale around noon, then off to the party! There are a couple things we plan to attend, including a visit to Trapeze! ( and a couple meetings with people we want to go to, but beyond that, we have NO idea what to expect.. and, while extremely excited, are just as nervous! That gets worse the closer we get though, and im sure will wear off the moment we walk into our room there.

We will fly back Monday morning, take parents back to the airport Tuesday morning, and possibly take the kids to the Theme Park in the area. Wednesday, we will be loading up the 3 kids in the car and taking them for a 6 hour drive to drop them off with my mother so we can go to the second event! This one will last us until the following Sunday!

You know, for being fairly new to this, we sure as hell jumped in heads first!

A New Outlook

Well, here I am, a couple years after I started this blog, realizing just how much crap is on this thing. So, I decided to start again as it appears I may have a bit more time to update more often.

First things first, clean out a lot of the old crap getting in the way of the important stuff. lol Ok, now that thats done, lets make a re-introduction post..

HI! I think I have this mostly figured out at this point, just need to figure out how in incorporate Audio into the posts. Both A. and I have went through some changes in our life, in our introduction to what is affectionately known as, "The Lifestyle".

For those of you who think you know what that means, Yes, you are right. For those who have no idea, We have become swingers. Regardless of any preconceptions that I, and the rest of the population may have, its really not bad, dirty, or wrong at all, and if anything, makes our marraige much stronger... While not for everyone, its worked out GREAT for us. We are getting ready for a couple really massive events that we are attending with a group, but I will come back to more details on that later.

Anyway, Welcome to SwingTimes!

I have such an awesome man (Posted by A. on other blog)

He has been really good to me recently... yes in the most dirty sense too....

I have been incredibly horny recently, and incredibly sensitive making this even more fun. YES!

the cool tranlation of course is that I am getting lots of sex. The better piece of this is not only is it frequent it is awesome.

Honestly, no lying here, we are talking multiples over 5 on average. Yea me.

And, it seems as if the sex has been awesome for him as well, and he has had a couple multiples himself.... GO BABY!

And I still want more sex. I actually just want to close him in a room for like 12 hours.... just for sex. Maybe some fucking, maybe some making love... lots of kissing, touching, sucking, licking..... I want it.

Anyway........ YEA SEX>>>>>>>>>

Last Night - His Take (Posted by D. on other blog and copied)

As I still have plenty of free time until this coming Monday, I wanted to get a chance to do something really cool for Aly..

Recently, we have not been playing with each other as much as we keep getting distracted by other activities, and wanted to make sure that she knew how badly I still wanted her..

This being the case, I spent yesterday cleaning the house, trying to make everything look good when she came home from work, so she would not be worried about the mess, and ran up to Priscillas to get a variety of toys, setup the 'under-bed restraint system', and hid the rest of the toys.

I sent her several messages throughout the day to keep her mind wandering, and wondering what I had in mind for later.. I even asked her a couple unrelated questions that would keep her mind wondering..

Later on, when she told me on Instant Messenger that she was on her way home, I ran outside, and started cutting the grass in the front yard, wearing a pear of good looking jeans that she likes, and no shirt.. This is something she has told me before that she loved to see.. She has also mentioend quite a few times that she loves me all hot and sweaty after working on something like that, so figured this was the perfect opportunity.

When she came home and saw me cutting the grass, she gave me a big smile, as i shut off the lawnmower and walked over to give her a hug and a kiss hello. I then told her to go inside, and put on a nice little t-shirt and jeans for me while I finished the grass..

When I finished, I went in the house, and found her laying upstairs in bed, wearing what I had asked her to find, and reading a book, waiting for me.. So, I walked up to her and pushed her on her back on the bed, and leaned over her, kissing her as I rubbed my hands all over her body. I then looked into her eyes, unbuttoned her jeans, and slid them off of her, before burying my head between her legs to lick her pussy..

Now.. I had intended to do this for a moment, and then have her get dressed, so I kept teasing her, by making her hold still and allow me to gently kiss and lick her lips, without her kissing back at all.. She managed to do this, thought I could tell it was difficult.. Then, I put her fingers on her clit, and told her that if she moved her hand, or anything else on her own, that I would stop immediatly and we would get up and leave. I then started using her hand to rub her pussy, as I slid my fingers into her, and licked her some more. She managed to do this well for several minutes as well... So, I slid up between her legs, leaving her hand where it was, and kissed her lips, as I slid into her, and started fucking her.. She still managed to hold still, but I could tell it was getting extremely difficult for her to do so...

In doing this, I eventually lost control myself, and fucked her harder.. After I started that, she did lose control, and wrapped her arms and legs around me, pulling me tight against me, and looking at me almost in desperation... This just made things that much hotter, and I kept fucking her until I felt her grab me even tighter, as we came together...

We then laid there for several minutes before going downstairs, and doing a few things to try and get some of our energy back, after such an energetic session of fucking...

We ended up going out to dinner, and then to Priscillas again, where she bought a T-shirt saying, 'Its not going to lick itself!' that she will probably wear out to certain events at times...

After we came home, we sat on the couch and watched an episode of 'Real Sex' together, with me rubbing my hands over her the entire time.. We then turned off the lights, and went upstairs, hopping in the shower together...

After we were all washed up, I went out and put the blindfold on her, telling her that I had all sorts of things I was going to do to her, with some things that she would not be expecting... I laid her down on her belly, and massaged back and legs with her Hitachi Magic Wand for several minutes. I then had her turn over, and massaged the front of her body the same, paying special attention to her nipples and pussy with the vibrator, as I kissed her lips and neck.. After doing this for a few moments, I got the wrist and ankle straps for the restraint system out, and put them on her, making sure to be very teasing with the noises I was making, making her wonder what I was up to.

I attached them to her arms, and then clasped it down on the the bed portion of the restraints, leaving her unable to move much at all. These are the first restraints that she is actually unable to get out of, without them having to be down tight in a way that cuts off circulation... I could leave her in these for a long time if I wanted.. She kept trying the restraints, to see if she would be unable to undo them, and seemed slightly disturbed that she was actually stuck for a change... I was loving this.. lol.

I licked her pussy for a few minutes, before turning on the tongue-vibrator that I had bought earlier, and putting it in my mouth, to lick her with that. for awhile while I fingered her.. I then played with her pussy with one of the attachments we have for the magic wand, that I had never played with her with, although she used on her own.. I even undid one of her hands so she could control it while I watched, and told her how much I loved to watch and touch myself while she did that.. Thinking of sliding into her.

After several minutes, I reattach her arm to the restraint, and start to lick her pussy some more.. sliding my fingers into her, before bringing them up for her to taste as well. She loves this, so I slide up between her legs and fuck her for a few moments, before moving up towards her head, and letting her suck her own juices off of my cock.. I know how much she loves doing this... In fact, at times I have been given the stipulation that if I want her to suck on my cock, I need to make her come on it first...

I then slide her favorite toy (A glass dildo) into her a bit as I lick her... She is completely soaked by this point... So, I tell her that I thought it was time to get the new toy that I picked for her that I was saving for last... as I thought she would enjoy it the most... It was a curved glass dildo, with several large knobs in it.. Based on what I have seen with her, this is something I knew she would absolutely love.. So, I slowly slide that into her, seeing how much she is enjoying it... I start to twist it a little, and slowly move it in and out of her while I lick her.. After a couple minutes, I undid one of her hands again, and allowed her to use it on herself...

She was loving this, so I removed her restraints, slid on the vibrating cock-ring that I had bought, took the glass toy from her, and pushed myself deep into her...

I had intended to take awhile fucking her, teasing her as I did.. but was unable to.. She was just so incredibly hot, and so was I by this point, that I had to take her.. fucking her hard until we both came, crashing into each others arms.. After a couple moments, I turned off the cock-ring, took it off, turned off the lights, and held her as she fel asleep on my chest.. ending a wonderful day...

A renewed interest (posted by A. on other blog and copied)

I never stopped finding my husband hot, but recently I find myself attracted to him all over again. I feel almost like a teenager again. I find myself just thinking of having sex with him.

I have had more fantasies involving him than I think that I have ever had (and he thinks there are just the ones that I have told him... hehehe). I don't know what it is.

I know that the more I do... the more I am thinking of sex with him... doing more. And while we find ourselves getting more and more involved in the Lifestyle... He is ALWAYS there. I think some of the reason I am opening up more with ideas and desires in it, is it has become more ingrained of doing things WITH him instead of just being there as we try and fulfill outside desires. Maybe that is what has made all the difference.

Anyways... just wanted to drop a note....

KC MnG (Posted by A. on other blog and copied here)

This weekend was the big weekend of the KC MnG.

We started out Friday night. I dressed in a small "school girl" skirt and a small t shirt. I wore my new platform heels. I thought I looked cute. Beautiful hubby wore my favorite... tight shirt and nice jeans. I so love that combination.

The room was big, probably way too big for the preparty... but nice since it was the same location as the main one, so we didn't have to change hotels.

It was great. We saw many of our old friends as well as met some new ones. We had something happen that had never happened to us before... people came to sit with us. Usually it is just us at an empty table and then we meet people who sit (which is REALLY cool too!).

We also started meeting several people that we had met in Tulsa as they had come up this direction (this is supposedly the biggest of the MnGs) We talked a lot with a couple from OK. We were both a little interested in them, but they somehow got caught on a really drunk stupid girl (hopefully that was just the alchohol). And we went back to our room. Not any real playing Friday night, outside of what could be done at the party.

We got up Saturday and went to go get food. When we got back we set up the pole. I love that pole. I started playing on it for awhile. It has been down for over a month due to circumstances. Erim got caught on the phone with a friend, but he watched for quite awhile... which is fine with me... since that is what he is supposed to do. *grin*

We went and checked in for the party.We got online and tried to check on a couple of couples to see if they were going to make it. We talked to BEB about coming by. While we were not able to have dinner with them, they did come to our room and have a drink with us before the party. They are such a cool couple.

The theme for the party was Rescue 911 or something rather... I dressed in a short police woman outfit... I wore my large net fishnets and my new heels. They were awesome. I thought I looked good. Hubby dressed in nice jeans and a button down suede like shirt. NICE!

WE HAVE PICTURES! No really... we do. And in most of them we look really hot... We spent the money to have the professional photographer take them.

We met lots of people. One of the club owners was fairly insistent that we come to his club soon. LOL. I got to take (cuz I won) a $100 bill from J breast... almost missed it too, cuz I was telling hubby and another couple how much I would like to do that... LOL.

The irony of things. But I still got to do it. AND by the way... J is so HOT.

I think sometime we take advantage of situations and forget that others that we are dealing with are human too. We really thought we were going to have several options about who to "go home with" tonight, but it didn't work out that way. BEB had to leave early because she had to leave on a business trip the next morning. HR... well, he got a little too drunk, she was irritated, and they left early. One couple we were looking forward to being here from Tulsa were not there. So, though both very happy and excited... went back to our room by ourselves. Not really that big of deal.

The reality is we could get more invitations, and invite as well... I think a little we are just picky. We like to chose our couples and know what they are like a little bit.

We still had a lot of fun... really. Lots of really attractive people... mostly undressed, lots of alcohol, lots of dancing. Had a lot of fun..