Our First Dinner (posted by A. on other blog)

After much debate we decided to go out on a one-on-one thing with another couple we met on the site. We were not really sure what to expect. We accepted an invatation with a couple that is about our age and had a couple kids. The pictures we okay and they did not look "scary" and they were really sweet....

We decided to go to Applebees. We have NO idea what to expect.

We are really glad we did. We talked and laughed for several hours with them (closed the resturant down and then sat outside for another hour). They were absolutely the best couple in the world who could have been our "first" date with.

Hopefully as a compliment... they are MUCH more attractive in person than they were in their pictures. But they have some experience in the lifestyle. They have been doing things for 7 years. They talked about their experiences and how they have come to be where they are. It made us feel normal. They also talked about their real life... I don't know how to describe it... but perfect.

We didn't "do" anything afterwards... but I think that is because we were obviously nervous, and being the great people that they were, were not pushing for anything, just let us know that they were interested and left it at that.

Pajama Party - His Take (Posted by D. and copied from other blog)

Well, we had been talking about going to an event to watch since around the time we moved in together. We had found the Club E. website at one point, and were watching for events that they had, attempting to figure out a time when we would be able to attend. After watching a few events go by, we realized they weren't posting any new events... Fairly distraught by this, we searched out other similar events in the area, and ran into the web-site for a small club. We made our profile, and for several days browsed the profiles and forms. We somehow ran into someone in the chat-room one day who lead us to a new site... THANK YOU! This site is Very alive, with events posted almost every day!

After wandering the site for many days, we decided to pick an event in the future, and we would plan to go to it.. We chose the Pajama Party, and ended up going shopping for some, as we both normally sleep naked.. and made our Hotel reservations.

On the way in, we noticed the room where the event would be taken place had opened early, so we went in and signed a couple Non-disclosure agreements, and walked around the room. This was suddenly seeming all the more real.. Anyway, after looking through the toy selection that was on sale, we went back to the room and had a couple drinks, nervously watching the clock as the start time came and went... We wanted a couple drinks in us when we went down...

A few minutes later, we go down and pick a spot in the corner so we can sit and watch.. And we did so for awhile, and people kept coming and talking to us.. Very good, very friendly people.. After a couple more drinks, I had enough to be able to get out on the Dance Floor with Aly.. I did not realize she could dance like that! I am not sure she know she could either.... It was an extreme turn-on!

After a couple songs, when she was dancing with me, grinding her ass against me, an extremely hot girl came up to her and started kissing her as she danced.. I could tell she was nervous, but we had talked about this before and she said she would be into it, so, assuming she was nervous because of me, urged her on. I was still grinding against Aly when I felt the other girls hands reaching around her hips and sliding over mine.. So, I reached a little further out and slid my hands over her hips too.. The whole thing was just a massive turn-on! She was only there for a short time before she walked away, but definetally gave me something to think about for awhile.. That was te first time I had seen something quite like that.....

Anyway, a few minutes later we went back to our seat and sat down. Within 20 minutes or so, the couple next to us started kissing on her deeply and touching her.. She was completely OK with it and reciprocated heavily, along with a lot of touching.. Watching the two of them was amazing.. After a couple minutes, i stood next to them, where I could touch both of them fairly heavily myself.. Her guy did not seem as interested, but did not seem to mind my presence, so I was taking advantage of it. lol. After probably 30 minutes of this, I slid my hand down the front o fher skirt and started rubbing her as she made out with my wife.. her moaning into my wife's mouth as they kisssed.. As she was lieing across the table with a few people grabbing her ass, and her dress down around her knees, her man had enough and pulled her dress back up.. So, me and Aly backed off and started touching each other more for a little while... Eventually, the party ended and we wandered off to watch a demonstration of a rather interesting machine... but nobody did it at the time, so we didn't get to see one... Maybe some other time..

We went back to our room and fucked like crazy.... before walking to Denny's... Getting some good(?) food... and going back to the hotel room to fuck her brains out some more.... She put on a good show for those in neighboring rooms with her screams..

God.. I am the luckiest man in the world!

lol

Pajama Party (Posted by A. on other blog and copied here)

So we finally took that leap... we attended our first "swinger" party.

It was a party held at Club S. which basically takes over a meeting room in this little mildly dumpy hotel. That however does not seem to affect the people or the atmosphere there.

We really did not know what to expect. We went down early to fill out some paperwork. The one thing we have noticed in all of this is that discretion on the lips of everyone. So, whenever you attend something new, they want to know who you are and know that you know the rules.

We left, changed into our pjs and came back. We sat kind of in the cornor, not really sure what to expect. An older couple sat across from us and was very nice. They talked and laughed and complimented us.

After awhile we went to dance (apparently enough alcohol is enough to make my husband do about anything.. LOL) It was hot. I loved dancing him in ways that would be totally inappropriate in post places. I could hear him whispering all kinds of dirty things to me about how hot I was, and how turned on he was, and how he was going to fuck me later. It just got me hotter, and probably dancing dirtier.

At the end of the last dance, and incredibly hot woman came up and kissed me (and touched... ). It is not the first time I have been with a girl, but with my husband I was nervous... this was like the first "test" of how all this would go. He kept whispering in my ear "go with it baby"

When we sat down there was another couple sitting next to us. She was probably in her late 40's, he... I think was younger. She had a nice body. Anyways, things kept progressing and the next thing I know, she and I are kissing a lot. I can hear my husband talking to the man she is with about all of this. They guys switch places. Now her man is rubbing my shoulders and arms. I look up and one point and ke starts to kiss me. At the same time my husband is kissing her and putting his hand down her dress..

At this point you wonder... how does one get here... where they are with their spouse and fooling around with others. I don't actually know the answer to this question, but I know where we are is not as bad as it may look from the outside. Things progress with this couple a little. She and I kiss a lot more. My husband has now put his hands EVERYWHERE that you can imagine.

A couple things happened, though the order is a little fuzzy. At somepoint my husband removed my pajama bottoms, so I am left wandering the party in my cami top and a black thong... :PI wander into the kitchen to find food in which a large guy asks if I am aware that I am not dressed...LOL. I say I am. He asks a couple other questions and asked how we were enjoying ourselves. He states that they are aware we are new and that they (security) has been watching all night to make sure nothing happens and nobody takes advantage of us.

We met a lot of really cool people... wow... some of the nicest people... I wonder why... heheh

When the dance ended, we went to our room and changed back into jeans and t-shirts. We stop by this room that they are demo-ing as a machine for her. I don't know how to describe it. I am mildly curious about it... maybe another time I will try it out.

We walk to Denny's and eat. We talk... a lot. It is kind of like old times when we used to never stop talking.

Back in our room... we fuck... a lot. And fall asleep... with each other.